Toxic People!!

Toxic People~

I have had my fair share of Toxic People. I would like to share something to help you to evaluate people in your life that may be toxic and need to be eliminated. I had a friend for years that I would do a lot of things for. If this person asked for money to help with gas or food, I would come out of my pocket to help. I realized that this person was toxic years ago but, I cared a lot for this person and I always thought good of this person until I tried telling this person that I cared for them and this person was just using me because they knew I had a good heart and I cared for them. This person tried to make me feel bad about their situation but, could care less about what was going on in my life. Can you say user? Users are toxic people. They may not see themselves as using someone else but, they are using people. These type of people should not be in your life if you want a life of peace and prosperity. If you have a friend or a person who always have their hand out and can not return any of the favors or loans they ask you for-they need to be eliminated, they are TOXIC~

Below is a list of TOXIC Behaviors from TOXIC People:

1-Always need a loan.

2-Never have food or gas or spare money to buy anything they need or want.

3-A person who gets upset with you when you say no to one of the above.

4-A person who gets mad at you when you are not jumping when they call or request your presence.

5-A person who does not consider your feelings.

6-A selfish person who only thinks of themselves.

7-An arrogant person who thinks they are better than you.

8-The phony Christian who reads the Word but, does not follow it or a phony Christian who can quote Scriptures but, doesn't live by them.

9-A person who does nothing for others or for YOU!!

10-A person who is not honest with themselves!!

PS-If you know someone who has any of these above features as a part of their personality, you need to eliminate that person from your life immediately. This person is TOXIC. This person is only for themselves and will bring down anyone who gives them a chance. You cannot allow this person to be a part of your life or you will lose your life trying to help them live their life. You cannot help those who can help themselves. God helps those who help themselves. Stop trying to save people, Jesus is the only Saviour!! Even though some read the Bible and use other people on the same day, need to be SAVED by Christ not you. You can lead them to Christ but, you cannot do Christ work of trying to save someone.

Here is a Tip:

You want to help someone, send money to a charity or get involved in community service like Volunteering in a Homeless Shelter, not giving your everything to people who uses you on purpose.

Let go of those people who have leeched on you for years and years and let God introduce you to a new set of His people who love Him and truly live by His Word!!!!

Walk in the Light,

Carmen