After my experience with a neighbor's teenage daughter, I decided to make sure that I blog on behavior, attitude and personality. I experienced my neighbor and her daughter fighting loudly every single day for the past few months. These folks did not care that they had been disturbing their neighbors or making complete idiots of themselves. Their fighting go out of hand earlier this week which lead to the Police coming out to diffuse the situation to no avail. The daughter's character was unacceptable in this society. She screamed to the top of her lungs for at least an hour and a half until she was removed from the premises. Her behavior showed me that their are some people out there that will never get any further than where they are and they think that it's ok. Some days I wonder if I wanted to stay in this Luxury Apartment Complex were so much crazy was happening right beside me. I have decided to move because I pay quite a bit to stay where I am and I see no reason why I should be somewhere that's noisy and full of mentally-ill people. I was so shocked that this young girl was acting like a 3-year kid having a tantrum in the middle of the street. I wanted to go out there and talk with her just to see if I could calm her down but, she was clearly putting on a show. I wanted to speak with her and let her know that anything that she wanted in life she could have but, she had to learn the value of respecting herself and others. She was speaking another language and it was difficult for the police officer to assist her because she was not speaking clear English. The mother seemed beat up and tired from the fussing and constant fighting. They both needed a clear lesson in living life the way it was meant to be live-in peace and harmony amongst each other. The daughter clearly had no respect for her mom and the mom was clearly trying not to beat the hell out of daughter from the fear of being deported. The mom seemed to be worn out after her daughter let loose and screamed for a long period of time.
People, understand that life is what you make it and no one is responsible for your life, just you. You cannot take you frustrations out on other people because you are not happy with where you are in your life. It is not your mother's fault or father's fault with the choices that you make regarding your life. Only you can take fault in your life. When you are so upset with the way you life has turned out, instead of taking your bad behavior out on someone else, you should take it out on yourself. You are the reason why nothing in your life is the way you want it to be. Take the time to journal or write down your thoughts and goals and make plans to see them come to past. I hate to see so many people with such bad attitudes because their day is not going the way they planned and they take it out on innocent people. The weak folks take other people's bad attitudes to heart and allow it to change their attitude. The strong people continue on in good spirits not allowing any one's bad day or bad attitude affect their day!! You have to take charge of your life! If you are one of those people who think that you need to have a tantrum because things in your life is not going your way, you need to work within yourself and find a way to make what you desire come to past. If you are one of the people who allow other people's behaviors and bad attitudes affect how you live and feel, then you need to gain more control over your life and actions. You must learn to stand a firm ground. You cannot allow yourself to be shaken because someone else is having a bad day or experiencing a bad attitude, you are the boss of yourself!!! Choose to be in Control of your life and live a new life that is based around what you desire for yourself.
Until Next Time,
Carmen Bailey
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